What Do You Want to Heal From?

I choose Heal as my word for 2023. I want to focus on returning to a sense of physical, mental, and spiritual balance and wholeness this year.

The other week I shared a list I made of 10 specific practices that I think will help me fulfill my goals for this word.

However, after I posted, it occurred to me that I hadn’t shared any specific needs for healing that inspired this word. I shared the method to address it but not the cause; the remedies but not the ailment.

And so, as before, I made another list in my journal. These are the top 10 things I’d say I’d like to focus on healing:

This is a pretty lofty set of issues, and I’m under no illusion any of them will be 100% resolved by the end of the year, let alone the end of my life. But there are ways to at least move closer to a healthier sense of self even as they continue to be present.

My earlier list can help with the items here in numerous ways. For instance:

  • Meditation can help address anxiety and my sense of “should”
  • Intentionally being around others can help with my tendency to self-isolate and my reluctance to accept others’ love
  • Martial arts and writing can both be outlets for resolving past drama, in very different ways
  • All the stuff I listed regarding healthier choices that can improve my physical health will help with my nagging shoulder issues

This is a small sampling of the ways I see the two lists interacting. There are likely many ways I haven’t thought about or realized yet. Making those discoveries over time is part of the journey.

What are you seeking to heal from this year and beyond?

As before, here’s a handy template you can save to make your own list:

Published by Jeff Nelson

Rev. Jeff Nelson serves as Minister for Ministerial Calls and Transitions as part of the MESA Team at the UCC national setting. He also serves as pastor of a small church in northeast Ohio. He is also a certified spiritual director in the tradition of Ignatius of Loyola. His latest book, The Unintentional Interim: Ministry in Times of Transition, released on April 15th, 2025.

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