Her Fists Clenched

Many of my woman clergy colleagues have stories about church members commenting on their appearance, or work/family balance, or even expressed desire to be in a relationship. Many women in other professions have their own stories as well.

The Supreme Court appears set to overturn a major ruling that grants women private autonomy over their own bodies.

The Southern Baptist Convention just released a major report regarding sexual abuse by male clergy against women.

It’s a wonder any woman trusts any man at any time, ever.

Some may want to respond to this with #NotAllMen, but there’s so much overwhelming anecdotal evidence to the contrary that the burden is on men to show better, all the time.

And it will take a long time before women may feel comfortable enough to unclench their fists.

Published by Jeff Nelson

Rev. Jeff Nelson serves as Minister for Ministerial Calls and Transitions as part of the MESA Team at the UCC national setting. He also serves as pastor of a small church in northeast Ohio. He is also a certified spiritual director in the tradition of Ignatius of Loyola. His latest book, The Unintentional Interim: Ministry in Times of Transition, released on April 15th, 2025.

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